Luis Maimoni, LMFT – Marriage and Family Therapist
Hi. My name is Luis Maimoni. I am a licensed marriage and family therapist specializing in relationships of all kinds.
Relationships with partners, with friends and family, and with co-workers are vital parts of our lives. When our relationships are great, we feel great. When our relationships are “having difficulties” or “experiencing challenges”, so are we. If you’re reading this, my guess is that one or more of your relationships is not in the “great” category. I can relate.
Many years ago, when my first marriage was breaking down, I felt alone and confused. I sought therapy to figure out what was going on, why it was happening, and what to do about it. The work led to my study of of every kind of relationship, from every perspective imaginable.
In a long since deleted blog post, I wrote “relationships are a lot more complicated than I thought they would be.” I would be my honor to work with you to uncomplicate yours.
What to Expect
I prefer a somewhat structured approach. Our first session is an “intake.” Some clients have a strong feeling about “the problem” when entering therapy, while others do not. If you know what you need, I’ll listen and ask questions. If you don’t know what you need, I’ll ask questions and listen. Either way, the intake is the time we talk over what is going on and how it is impacting your life. The “take-away” from the first session is an agreement on what the problem is, and what caused it.
The second session is goal setting and developing a treatment plan. What do you want to work on, exactly? What sorts of changes need to take place in your life for things to be better than they are? How long will it take to make those changes? How will we know that the changes are in place, and will last?
These early sessions form the basis for our work together. Our journey begins.
“The only people we can think of as normal are those we don’t yet know very well.”
– Alain de Botton
My approach is humanistic and founded in attachment theory. Whether doing work with couples or with individuals, I prefer evidence based, proven techniques. I collaborate with clients to set goals for themselves in therapy so that we can measure our progress and make adjustments to our work when needed.
I often integrate aspects of Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), as it has been shown to be an effective short term therapy. For clients that have not gotten the results they want with CBT, I often transition to mindfulness. Mindfulness offers a method for improved self-regulation, and provides a path to better self-awareness. With greater self-awareness, it becomes possible to do the work necessary to address deeply rooted problems.
Although there are many clinical aspects to how I work, the most important things I provide are a listening mind, relentless curiosity, deep caring and respect, and a willingness to be my authentic self. Clients have told me they appreciate my direct style of communicating.
“What lies behind us and what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what lies within us.”
– Ralph Waldo Emerson
Education & Credentials:
- License #: 105978
- License State: California
- Practicing Since: 2013
- Education: I completed my undergraduate work at the University of California at Berkeley. My Masters degree in Counseling and Marriage and Family therapy is from the University of Phoenix.